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Chapter 17: Refusal of disposable diapers

 

Chapter 17: Refusal of disposable diapers

Natural hygiene of the baby

Natural hygiene of the baby – Disposable diapers are perhaps the most popular baby product today. Using 5-6 diapers a day, modern parents are forced to constantly replenish their household supplies. The introduction of the disposable diaper has revolutionized and completely changed baby care. However, was this invention so positive? Why do couples who practice natural parenting today refuse disposable diapers or try to use them to a minimum? What are the alternative solutions for newborn hygiene?

What is the harm of disposable diapers?

1. Destruction of the environment – Exactly destruction

Today, the use of only disposable diapers, including 5-6 disposable diapers a day, can no longer be called simply “pollution”. In families with small children, dirty diapers account for up to 50% of household waste. The use of disposable diapers by just one child results in the release of up to 2 tons (!) Of non-degradable waste into the environment. And the waste from the diaper industry is enormous. There is a wonderful wise phrase: “From the point of view of the planet, there is no such thing as ‘throwing away the trash’. Nowhere. ” If we are talking about awareness and karma, it is the selfish destruction of the world around that should be the main reason for not using disposable diapers.

2. Harmful composition

When buying another pack of disposable diapers, do you think about their composition? Which components provide moisture absorption and retention within 3-4 hours? Let’s consider just some of the components.

  • Membrane. Made of plastic. Creates a greenhouse effect on the skin. Promotes the reproduction of anaerobic bacteria, including those that are excreted in the feces and then remain in a warm, humid environment. The development of these bacteria has a cumulative effect. In the event that a wound or scratch appears on the baby’s skin (even very small and imperceptible), the bacteria enter the bloodstream.
  • Dioxins (dioxins). Substances released in the process of making the diaper look snow-white. Some of the most dangerous poisons. Often found in diapers in small quantities. Affect the endocrine system. Considered much more dangerous carcinogens than DDT (insecticide used against mosquitoes, pests of cotton, soybeans, peanuts, locust infestations. Banned for use in many countries due to the fact that it can accumulate in the body of animals, humans). There is research evidence that dioxins and similar bleaching wastes are directly related to a drop in the number of live sperm in a man’s sperm, congenital malformations, cancer of the testicles, prostate, breast, and pathology of genital development.
  • Crystalline sodium polyacrylate crystals. Transparent gel adsorbent, absorbent liquid. A toxic polymer that often causes allergic reactions. Was removed from feminine hygiene tampons after it was found to cause toxic shock syndrome. There is no information on how safe this substance is when absorbed through the skin of an infant for several years, as no such studies have been conducted.
  • Ethylbenzene, dimethylbenzene (xylene, ethylbenzene). Found in diapers during laboratory research. They have a neurotoxic effect, harm the respiratory organs and harm the endocrine system.
  • Styrene. Carcinogen. Toxic to respiratory organs.
  • TBT (tributyltin). Disrupts the production of sex hormones. Damages the immune system by destroying immune cells that fight bacteria. A child who is put on 5 diapers a day gets TBT, which is many times higher than the WHO limit.

3. Greenhouse effect

Long-term presence of a child in a disposable diaper directly affects the health of his reproductive organs. In May 2000, a study was published showing that boys wearing disposable diapers have a high scrotal temperature; this can lead to suppression and atrophy of the physiological cooling mechanism of the testicles, which is necessary for normal spermatogenesis.

For girls, bacteria that are excreted in the feces and are in a warm, humid environment can easily enter the vagina and provoke an ascending urinary tract infection. Infection most often occurs with its own E. coli. That is why all pediatricians recommend washing girls from front to back, and in no case vice versa. However, unfortunately, many people forget that often the skin and mucous membranes of the baby’s genitals are in their own feces and urine in an airtight membrane.

In addition, regular wearing of disposable diapers often provokes diaper rash, rashes and discomfort in babies. Many women report discomfort when using sanitary napkins, especially in summer. However, they are forced to use these hygiene products for only a few days a month. What does your baby feel when he is in such an environment around the clock? And if it’s 30–35 degrees Celsius outside?

4. Lack of logical relationship between urination and discomfort in the baby.

Unlike reusable diapers or simple fabric pants, in which the baby senses a change in a dry-wet situation, in absorbent disposable diapers, he does not have the ability to track his feelings so clearly. Thus, the child does not develop the simplest logical chain “felt discomfort – became wet”. He does not learn to know his body and its reactions. However, it is important to help the baby develop the ability to “endure”, as this trains the sphincters of the bladder and anus, which in turn is the best prevention of enuresis. In developed European countries, enuresis is one of the most common problems among children of preschool and primary school age.

5. Disposable diapers are exclusively the convenience of the mother, not the baby.

Disposable diapers are definitely a product aimed at parents, but not toddler. After all, adults go to the store, and they also pay money for diapers. Hence the conclusion: it is necessary to make the goods necessary for parents, mainly, of course, for mothers. After all, the baby himself does not need diapers at all. Babies are most comfortable without clothes at all. This is how they learn to know their body. From about 2 months, the child begins to actively move, “find” his arms and legs, makes the first attempts to become aware of his tactile sensations. Undoubtedly, clothes only interfere with this.

“Unfortunately, I didn’t have enough consciousness not to use diapers. Like everyone else, I saw them as simplifying life for myself and the child, which turned out to be a big mistake. You get used to them easily, but very difficult to wean. As a result, we abandoned them closer to 2 years. Now I know that with the next child just will not use diapers, and do not advise anyone to do that “ .
Varvara Kuznetsova, production and sale of clothes, mother of Dobrynya

In our age of consumption, parents of babies suffer from a hoarding mania. For a newborn, they buy everything: clothes, toys, furniture, hygiene products, etc. Of course, it is very difficult for girls who played with dolls in childhood and who loved to dress up their toy daughters, having matured and becoming mothers, pass by a huge selection of clothes, toys, books in children’s stores. However, all your child needs is you and your peace of mind and joy. In reality, children need very little clothing. First, they spend most of their time at home. And at home it is best to be naked at all, for going out, 2-3 changeable types of clothes are enough. Secondly, children grow up very quickly, especially in the first years of life. At best, things serve them for several months, and then they go to the mezzanine to clog the physical and energetic space of our homes.

But for mothers in everyday life, disposable diapers are very convenient. As a result, the change of diapers happens when the mother needs it, and not when the baby went to the toilet. That is, the priority is not given to the child’s regimen, his natural needs and an attempt to satisfy them, but the mother’s “busyness”. To be lazy more, mothers are ready to pay more. This is what the manufacturers of disposable diapers are counting on.

6. Large financial costs.

Considering that it is recommended to change diapers for newborns once every 1-2 hours, and for older babies once every 3-4 hours, a modern mother needs from 6 to 24 diapers per day. One package usually contains about 60 diapers. That is, from 3 to 14 packages are needed per month. One package costs on average about 800-900 rubles. Now calculate how much it will cost a family to regularly use diapers for one child for 1.5-2 years. At this age, children are usually potty trained; Less diapers are required, but still, many parents continue to use diapers for their children up to 3 years of age or more. It turns out that disposable diapers are not only environmentally unethical and unhealthy for the baby, but also prohibitively expensive. And most importantly, this is completely unjustified,

Benefits of reusable diapers

Our grandmothers and mothers used diapers or gauze as diapers, tying them to the child like panties. Of course, such a design could only withstand 1–2 urination. She had to be changed immediately, and in the evening to wash a heap of dirty diapers (usually by hand). Residents of communal apartments also had to iron the diapers several times, since the neighbors in the communal apartments most often came across unhealthy, with bad habits. However, today’s reusable diapers and various natural changing systems have far surpassed their ancestors in comfort for the baby and convenience for the mom. Why choose reusable diapers over disposable ones?

1. Environmental friendliness

Most reusable diapers are made from natural materials. Sets of panties and inserts are machine washable and dry within a few hours, then ready to use again. Designed for use by a child from birth to 3-4 years of age and is most often inherited by younger children. Thus, thanks to the use of environmentally friendly materials and the ability to use them for more than one year, reusable diapers rid our planet of tons of non-degradable waste.

2. Natural composition

Breathable materials allow babies to feel comfortable in a diaper in summer and do not create a “greenhouse effect”. Diaper rash and dermatitis with modern reusable diapers are much less common than with disposable ones.

3. The child learns to know his body

Unlike disposable diapers, in which the baby does not even have the opportunity to understand that he is peeing periodically, in reusable diapers, the child’s idea of ​​the process changes. Reusable diapers can withstand multiple urinations to keep your baby’s skin dry. However, soon the liner gets wet enough for the child to begin to feel wet panties. From time to time he feels discomfort, urination occurs, the baby realizes that something is changing in his panties: it was dry, it became damp and uncomfortable. You need to call mom and change the situation. Gradually, a clear causal relationship “discomfort -> urination -> wet -> call mom -> dry” is being built. Over time, having developed a clear logic of the process, the baby, when he feels discomfort, will already understand that it will be wet now, and will try to warn his mother about this in advance. And the mother, with a certain practice (landing), will learn to recognize such signals and will be able to prevent panties from getting wet by dropping the child over the basin. After the baby has gone to the toilet, you can put it back in the dry diaper. So the baby will develop a new logical chain “discomfort -> I call mom -> urination -> dry”. The baby’s urination control is gradually transferred from the mother to himself. Of course, teaching a child to pay attention to the call of his own body is very positive in terms of his mental development, as well as establishing close contact and mutual understanding with his mother. you can put it back in the dry diaper. So the baby will develop a new logical chain “discomfort -> I call mom -> urination -> dry”. The baby’s urination control is gradually transferred from the mother to himself. Of course, teaching a child to pay attention to the call of his own body is very positive in terms of his mental development, as well as establishing close contact and mutual understanding with his mother. you can put it back in the dry diaper. So the baby will develop a new logical chain “discomfort -> I call mom -> urination -> dry”. The baby’s urination control is gradually transferred from the mother to himself. Of course, teaching a child to pay attention to the call of his own body is very positive in terms of his mental development, as well as establishing close contact and mutual understanding with his mother.

In addition, babies who have figured out to a certain extent with the urges and reactions of their bodies, much earlier they learn to do without diapers at all and stay dry both during the day and at night. This situation minimizes the risks of bedwetting. The most important thing is that the child understands that his body can be controlled, some processes can be regulated.

4. Provide wide swaddling

which often helps to improve the situation with dysplasia of the hip joints in the newborn.

5. Saving the budget

Depending on the establishment of the practice of planting mothers need from 6-8 to 1-2 sets of reusable diapers. The minimum set – the diaper itself and two inserts – will cost an average of 600 to 900 rubles (like one pack of disposable diapers). Considering that such diapers are sufficient for the entire growth period of the baby, and they can also be transferred to younger children, the costs are incomparably lower.

6. Mom is more motivated to help her baby stay dry

Although reusable diapers absorb enough moisture, like diapers, they need to be washed regularly. That is why the mother does not have a desire to leave the baby in them up to 3 years old during the day and up to 5 at night (which is often the case when using disposable diapers).

Why is it still not worth keeping a baby in diapers around the clock (neither disposable, nor reusable)? How can you help your baby to control his “trips to the toilet”? Let’s talk about the natural hygiene of babies.

What is planting, or baby’s natural hygiene?

A small child has very few desires, and crying serves as an indicator of each of them. After several months after giving birth, when the mother gets used to her new role and spends a lot of time with the baby, she begins to distinguish the nuances of crying. How a hungry baby cries; how a tired baby cries; a very special cry, which the mother will not confuse with any other, this is crying from pain or suffering (a tummy hurts, the baby is scratched, scared, etc.). In fact, from the first days of life, a child learns to non-verbally inform his mother about what is happening to him, what he feels. However, giving such signals (crying, grunting, moaning), the baby himself at the moment of discomfort does not understand why he is experiencing this discomfort.

An infant may want to:

1) eat or suck (in the case of infants, this implies the same action; in formula-fed children, it is divided into two separate actions);
2) to the toilet;
3) he may be hot or cold (babies have not yet developed a thermoregulation mechanism, they can quickly overheat or hypothermia);
4) intimacy and communication with mom (for pens).

By reacting to the child’s anxiety with a certain sequence of actions (we offer a breast, we suggest going to the toilet, we check the temperature regime, we pay attention to bodily contact, games and conversations), you can understand why he is crying. Now we are talking about a standard situation when the child is healthy, he is not bothered by the tummy, teething, etc. Thus, you can easily learn how to land the baby and give him the opportunity to go to the toilet. Then he will not have to wait until the bladder or large intestine is filled to the limit and cause severe discomfort, which the baby can no longer tolerate. Psychologist Ekaterina Blukhterova explains the following: “A child is born with an immature nervous system. The innervation is not complete, and the new nerve fiber will grow even before the age of 8, but this process is most active in the first year of life. The nerve fiber grows with an uncovered myelin layer (it’s like a wire without insulation). Therefore, the signals are scattered, not local, which makes it very difficult to understand the processes in the body. This means that for a baby, wherever he experiences discomfort / pain / stress and so on – it is EVERYWHERE! Therefore, for the baby “everything is a problem”, and many of the child’s processes upset and create discomfort. This is a biological and medical fact, any neonatologist will tell you. The baby needs to be worn out and active tactile stimulation, not to speed up (!), But for the timely maturation of the nervous system. Planting helps the child to realize in which part of the body there is discomfort and where to direct efforts to overcome it. ” Therefore, the signals are scattered, not local, which makes it very difficult to understand the processes in the body. This means that for a baby, wherever he experiences discomfort / pain / stress and so on – it is EVERYWHERE! Therefore, for the baby “everything is a problem”, and many of the child’s processes upset and create discomfort. This is a biological and medical fact, any neonatologist will tell you. The baby needs to be worn out and active tactile stimulation, not to speed up (!), But for the timely maturation of the nervous system. Planting helps the child to realize in which part of the body there is discomfort and where to direct efforts to overcome it. ” Therefore, the signals are scattered, not local, which makes it very difficult to understand the processes in the body. This means that for a baby, wherever he experiences discomfort / pain / stress and so on – it is EVERYWHERE! Therefore, for the baby “everything is a problem”, and many of the child’s processes upset and create discomfort. This is a biological and medical fact, any neonatologist will tell you. The baby needs to be worn out and active tactile stimulation, not to speed up (!), But for the timely maturation of the nervous system. Planting helps the child to realize in which part of the body there is discomfort and where to direct efforts to overcome it. ” and many of the child’s processes upset and create discomfort. This is a biological and medical fact, any neonatologist will tell you. The baby needs to be worn out and active tactile stimulation, not to speed up (!), But for the timely maturation of the nervous system. Planting helps the child to realize in which part of the body there is discomfort and where to direct efforts to overcome it. ” and many of the child’s processes upset and create discomfort. This is a biological and medical fact, any neonatologist will tell you. The baby needs to be worn out and active tactile stimulation, not to speed up (!), But for the timely maturation of the nervous system. Planting helps the child to realize in which part of the body there is discomfort and where to direct efforts to overcome it. “

Of course, “catching” all the kid’s trips to the toilet should not be an end in itself. The goal is only to establish contact with the baby and teach him to listen to the signals of his own body.As the logical chain “discomfort -> call mom -> action (urination or defecation) -> comfort” is developed, the child will better understand and learn to control his own needs. Increasingly, you will be able to notice the sign from the crumbs and help him go to the toilet. We are not talking here, for example, about early potty training or saving on diapers. This turns out to be just a pleasant benefit of natural hygiene practice. Also, planting is by no means the development of a conditioned reflex in the baby to write or poop in response to the actions of the mother. On the contrary, this is a mother’s reaction to the needs of a little man who has not yet learned to express his needs in words.

What are the benefits of planting practice?

1. Establishing close contact and understanding between mom and baby

“Planting gives the greatest feedback effect“ from child to mother ”… When establishing breastfeeding, such a strong inner sensitivity and adjustment is not needed: the need to eat is stronger, and the baby communicates it more urgently. And in order to notice the almost invisible signs that a child needs to be dropped off, the whole organism must already be tuned to children’s biorhythms, this includes much more “tracking mechanisms” in the subconscious. When the baby receives feedback from the mother, he learns to track the very feeling of fullness in the bladder or colon. Such children get used to going to the potty much more easily and practically do not suffer from enuresis (we, of course, do not exclude the influence of other psychological and physiological factors: stress, period of illness, etc.). Children, who do not receive feedback from their mother in response to demonstrating the need to go to the toilet, get used to not paying attention to these feelings. Subsequently, it is much more difficult for these kids to explain why they need to use the potty, and also to teach them to listen to their own body. The risk of bedwetting in such cases increases significantly.

2. Improving baby’s health.

At birth, the baby’s gastrointestinal tract is not yet fully developed. For all nine months, he received foods already digested and split into the necessary elements through the umbilical cord. Now he begins to feed on his own, digestion starts. However, this process is gradual, and its formation often causes anxiety to the baby (gas, colic). Planting improves intestinal peristalsis, a special posture helps the baby get rid of gas, provides massage of internal organs, significantly reduces the risk of colic.

3. Development of the baby’s intelligence.

A certain order of the appearance of various sensations in the child (discomfort alternating with comfort) and the actions of the mother at the same time helps the baby to learn early to build causal relationships, explain what is happening, and ask for help.

4. Comfortable feelings of the child.

The practice of dropping out assumes that the child is mostly without diapers or pants. In this case, firstly, he will immediately feel the consequences of his “trip to the toilet” and next time he will try to avoid these feelings. Secondly, it is much easier for mom to land the baby, since there is no need to take off and put on a diaper or pants every time. For such “holopops” water and constant air baths provide maximum comfort, absence of diaper rash, rashes and other problems that their peers very often face.

5. The kid learns to know his body.

The habit of “holo-drinking” allows babies to explore their own body, because a diaper does not provide such an opportunity. Boys and girls begin to understand what genitals they have, and most importantly, get used to them. This helps to avoid excessive interest in the genitals (especially in boys, because they constantly feel and see a smooth crotch in the diaper) at a later age, when potty training begins. Very often, mothers of babies in diapers are faced with the need to wean the child from constantly touching the genitals. Such babies are not used to what is below their waist, so, naturally, this will arouse their increased interest.

It is important to remember: of course, the practice of planting requires establishing a certain way of life in order to minimize the consequences of punctures. These rules are different for each age and stage of the baby’s development (neonatal period, gradual start of movement, walking skills), but they are very easy to find in special literature and begin to apply. And, of course, getting out doesn’t preclude the use of diapers. There are situations when a diaper (disposable or reusable) is objectively necessary (for a walk in the cold season, while traveling by plane, on a visit, etc.). The point is to leave your baby without a diaper as often as possible and help him to cope with his natural needs.

Planting technique

• You can start planting from birth to 1.5 years (then usually begins potty training).

• Positions for planting:

1) While standing, we press the baby with his back to us, bring the legs to the stomach, knees are above the priests, hold the baby over the basin, sink, diaper, etc.
2) You can plant with the breast (especially important for night plantings) … The baby sucks the breast in the “cradle” position (the head is on the bend of the mother’s arm), bend the legs, knees to the tummy, hold it over the basin. Babies do not yet know how to consciously relax the sphincters; when they receive breasts, they calm down and relax with the whole body. Accordingly, it immediately turns out, if necessary, to empty the bladder or intestines. That is why newborns “go to the toilet” most often during or immediately after feeding.
3) You can easily find a more detailed description of the baby’s positions and signals about the need to go to the toilet in specialized literature or on the Internet.

• Planting is a process controlled by the baby, not the mother. Therefore, it happens not at the request of the mother, but according to the real needs of the child. When unloading the baby, mother only invites him to “go to the toilet”. Therefore, you should not hold the child over the basin for a long time: 1-2 minutes in the daytime and 3-4 minutes at night. If the baby wants to use the toilet, this time is usually enough to start the process. You should not keep the baby for a long time, otherwise he will begin to overextend the muscles of the tummy in order to pee or poop, which is no longer a natural process.

• It is imperative to maintain physical contact between the baby and the adult. If the child is already big and can sit on the potty on his own, you need to hold his hand. You cannot put a baby on a potty if he still does not know how to get up from it on his own and leave.

Planting is not at all a newfangled invention of modern parents. This is the technique that our ancestors used, because there were no diapers before. Children from birth were running without panties and panties. They were simply uncomfortable when it was necessary to help the baby to relieve himself. In many paintings of the past, even boys are depicted in long shirts. In Russia, most often, babies wore shirts of their mother or father, which protected them from the cold, while the crotch remained open. We, modern people, accustomed to the “achievements of civilization”, for the good and health of our children should remember that diapers (especially disposable) are intended primarily for safety net in difficult situations, but not for regular wear.

“I have tried both planting and using cotton diapers and nappies and disposable diapers. There is a lot of trouble with cotton, they need to be washed, but they are much better than disposable ones, as they allow the skin to breathe. Disposable diapers are very convenient to use, but they cover almost a third of the baby’s skin, it is stuffy, hot, humid in them (no matter how absorbent they are, there is still moisture), delicate skin becomes irritated. This “greenhouse effect” is especially dangerous for boys, as it can cause problems with sexual functions in the future. Convenience is only for mom; this is harmful for the baby, not to mention the pollution caused by the tons of used diapers. To avoid all these diaper hassles, it is better to suffer a little at the very beginning and teach the child to sit down!
Natalia Khodyreva, programmer, Anna’s mother

“In the maternity hospital, of course, we used diapers regularly. But upon arrival home, the classic waterproof diapers were replaced with home cloth diapers. After reading Ingrid Bauer’s book Living Without Diapers, they began to practice the planting method. Since there are two older children, the load is considerable, they were planted from time to time, but at night they still used waterproof diapers. But the water wears away the stone, and in 9 months 7-8 times out of 16 we went to the pot. In a year, the child consciously asked for it, and in a year and 4 months he went outside without a diaper and wrote under the trees. Now we are a year and 7 months old, the weather is very cold, but the child calmly walks on the street for 1.5 hours, and when he gets home he quickly runs to the potty. “
Yulia Skrynnikova, teacher, mother of Elizaveta, Danila and Svyatoslav Chapter 18. On wearing on hands and sling.

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